The third common case of wrong parenting:
The child pulled his trousers in a show of extreme impatience
Grace wen is 3 years old and sometimes pulls her pants.Once, grandpa knew that wenwen was in the pants, very angry, while impatiently taking off the pants, while complaining: "how to pull into the pants, how not to tell the adults, ah, really smelly."
When the child is not intentionally pulled on the pants, the adult because the child caused their own trouble and berated the child, easily causing the child's fear.Later, when the child has a free will, he is afraid of being scolded by the adult and dare not tell the adult, so he can not hold it and pulls it directly in his pants.
The right thing to do is: don't yawn and be patient.The child is already 3 years old, shy mood also developed, began to have the sense of shame, a few improper words and deeds will often bury the child's psychology shadow.The old man should patiently tell the baby that it is normal to be big, just like everyone has to eat and drink.The body will feel relaxed after pulling the stool.Want defecate later must tell us ahead of time, do not pull in pants, otherwise adult pack up very troublesome.
The fourth common case of wrong parenting:
Always interrupt when the child is focused
There was a time when Ming Ming Ming was concentrating on playing with building blocks. When he was about to eat, his grandmother interrupted him.Ming had to put down his building blocks and eat.In the afternoon, Ming Ming Ming Ming was reading a book. His grandmother suddenly called Ming Ming Ming and said, "should I pee?"He grabbed Ming's hand and ran into the toilet. Ming's book was still tightly held.
It is also common for parents to interrupt their children while they are playing.The longer you stay focused, the better, and the older people unknowingly sabotage your child's focus, which can have serious consequences -- lack of focus.
The right thing to do: learn to wait without interrupting.The child is building blocks, and the meal is ready, it is better to wait for a while, and let him slowly "lure" him with rice incense after finishing the building.If your child is reading a book and you happen to be going out, it's best to wait until the child has finished reading the book.parents should never interrupt their children. If there are rules, they should make it clear to their children before they play that they should not interrupt them when they start their own business.
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The fifth common case of wrong parenting:
Stop children from trying new things
Chen is curious about new things.Curious about the height, but every time he climbed high, grandpa would say, "so high, dangerous, hurry down.";Chen Chen saw the caterpillar under the tree trying to take a good look with his hand, but he didn't think that grandpa was worried and said, "why, caterpillar bites people, don't touch."
Children are born to be the boldest and bravest. They dare to take risks and explore.The result is that children think there is danger everywhere around them. They are afraid to try new things and lose their curiosity, thirst for knowledge and interest in learning.
The right thing to do: let go of your hands and let the child try.But families should be there for their children, keeping an eye on potential dangers, preparing for them, and saving them, to minimize them.
How does mother and old person child-rearing view differ?
Here we teach mom a few tips:
• be open-minded, don't get angry with the old people, treat them as children and don't care about them.
• tolerance and acceptance of the character of the elderly, including their shortcomings;
• no confrontation, calm down before communication;
• seeing is believing: it is more persuasive to grasp the case analysis in life;
• alternative thinking: understand the old people's hard work, see their efforts, work hard, and say how grateful you are to them.